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Archive for Grief Relief

Surviving & Healing Grief from the Loss of a Loved One

After a separation and then sudden death of my husband, I had to find my way out of the darkness and grief – contemplating the loss of my life partner, business partner, and all the dreams I had had.

Through the discovery of works like Ho’oponono and Theta Healing and Possibilities DNA, not only did I discover that I could heal myself and my grief, but it lit a passion inside me to pursue working with women and children experiencing deep loss, and helping them through their grief.

On this powerful episode with interviewer, Louse Crooks, I share my journey, work, and what it truly means to take steps to move through grief. We also share how it’s possible to survive losing a child, sibling, parent, or spouse and also to be able to look beyond at a bright future, which might seem impossible now.

If you or someone you know is suffering from grief because of loss of a loved one, or is on the journey of having to say goodbye to a loved one who is at the end stages of life, make sure to listen to this episode.

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I’d love it if you’d share your comments or any questions you may have.

If you are going through grief and ready to start the healing process, we are here for you!

What Happens When Someone Dies?

What happens when someone dies? I’m sure that at some time or another in your life you’ve probably asked yourself that question or wondered about what happens after death.

Life Force - What Happens When Somebody DiesOne of the most common fears is the fear of death, and my intention for writing this short article is so you would take a look at what your beliefs are about death. Here are some of my thoughts on the subject.

This body of ours holds the life force of who we are which keeps us alive. We know that energy can never be destroyed, it can only be changed or transmuted. This intangible substance that we call “essence” also known as chi, life force, spirit, and by other names, can never be destroyed, because it has no form and it’s invisible.

It’s this life force that inhabits and animates our bodies.

Often when we are alive we rarely give thought to the essence, the chi or the life force within us. When we die the life force or chi that was within us is what leaves our body or the form.

When we look at the body at death all we see is the form without the life force. This is what we call death, which makes sense since the life force which was keeping the body alive has left and is no longer sustaining it.

If we fear death I believe it’s because we fear that there’s nothing left after our physical body is destroyed, that we are dead forever and that’s the end, but is death really the end? This debate on after life has gone on for centuries and will probably continue to do so for a long time.

If you’ve had a challenge about this subject here are some related questions that you could ask yourself to do with death:

  • Who am I?
  • Why are we born?
  • What is the meaning of life?
  • What is the purpose of life?

Answering those questions will give you some insights on the overall picture to do with death and dying. Please share your comments in the comment box below.

Love & Blessings,


Here’s an Inspirational Story


Too often we feel alone. But there is always someone ready to take our hand.

This is a beautiful story of an overworked nurse who escorted a tired, young man to her patient’s bedside. Leaning over and speaking loudly to the elderly patient, she said, “Your son is here.” With great effort, his unfocussed eyes opened, then flickered shut again. The young man squeezed the aged hand in his and sat beside the bed. Throughout the night he sat there, holding the old man’s hand and whispering words of comfort.

By morning’s light, the patient had died. In moments, hospital staff swarmed into the room to turn off machines and remove needles. The nurse stepped over to the young man’s side and began to offer sympathy, but he interrupted her. “Who was that man?” he asked.

The startled nurse replied, “I thought he was your father!” “No, he was not my father,” he answered. “I never saw him before in my life.”

“Then, why didn’t you say something when I took you to him?”

“I realized he needed his son and his son wasn’t here,” the man explained. “And since he was too sick to recognize that I was not his son, I knew he needed me.”

Mother Teresa used to remind us that nobody should have to die alone. Likewise, nobody should have to grieve alone or cry alone either. Or laugh alone or celebrate alone.

We are made to travel life’s journey hand in hand. There is someone ready to grasp your hand today. And someone hoping you will take theirs.

Unresolved Grief – Dealing with Grief During the Holidays

Unresolved grief can be very debilitating, especially if we don’t deal with it. When we use the word grief or grieving, most of us conjure up pictures of bereavement, but grieving is more than just for the loss of a loved one through death.

One grieves because of a divorce, separation from a partner, parents, siblings or friends, loss of a pet, a job, livelihood, business or health. The list goes on. Dealing with grief during the holidays can even amplify unresolved grief.

We have a lot of myths around grieving and the grieving process, one of which is the expectation that it takes only a short time and then it’s over and done with, and the healing has taken place.

That may be true for some but each person is different & has had a different relationship with the person they’ve lost, and the grieving process time is different for each individual.

So when a memory surfaces up months or years later & we get triggered we judge ourselves for feeling sadness or grief. We think (I’m paraphrasing “I thought I had dealt with this, why am I going through this again”?)

That’s because there are countless of memories in our subconscious that reoccur for the sole purpose of healing them. It doesn’t have to be a big deal. We just have to feel those emotions & release them.

Did you know that unresolved grief has a lower vibration than fear?

It’s in our collective consciousness. You just have to look around to be aware and feel this energy that is permeating our planet.

The good news is that we can change this by shifting these energies that are preventing us from operating from our highest potential and limitless self.

So if you don’t know how to clear these energies and don’t do it on a consistent basis then please join me on this free webinar Feeling Blue Over The Holidays — Group Coaching Grief Relief Session.

Here’s where you register:

Earlier this year I shared a little about the direction I was being led to move towards which had to do with my purpose. I’ve always known that one of my gifts was to teach, & my passion is to do with transformation & how to raise our vibration so that we can operate from our essence, or our limitless self.

For a long time I wasn’t sure who the special people were that I was called to work with. As I’ve become clearer I know that I’m to focus on women and children who have lost a loved one.

If you are still feeling unresolved grief…

Be sure to join us on our free webinar where I will be giving a group coaching grief relief session helping you in dealing with grief during the holidays.

Love & Blessings,

Brenda Blindenbach
Holistic Health Practitioner
& Transformational Coach

p.s. Be sure to share with those you love!

Transform Your Life By Healing Grief & Loss

As you know my passion is helping people heal their grief and loss. I want to send a big thank you to you if you voted for me at the Visionary Business Contest. I didn’t officially make it to the 2nd round of the contest, however all the contestants were given the opportunity to continue with the training.

The second level was to create a 2 page website, an opt in page, a video, content for either a Teleseminar, Webinar or a Live Event, and much more. I decided to go for the webinar.

Believe me this was a huge challenge for me and it stretched me to no end. After hours of working on it often to the wee hours of the morning (as there was a dead line to keep) I’m excited to say that the site is up and activated.

So here’s your invitation to join me on my “no-cost” Live online webinar:

Transform Your Life By Healing Grief And Loss

Learn to let go of pain and suffering.

Register for this amazing free webinar today.

  • Learn about what causes pain and suffering
  •  Find out what resistance looks like
  • Discover how to let go of grief and loss
  • Find out how to be open
  • Learn what going with the flow really means

Join me as we take this journey together to learn how releasing or letting go of pain and suffering is imperative and the first step to creating your reality.


Date: Wednesday / October 16th, 2013

Time: 6:00pm (Pacific USA) 9:00pm (Eastern USA)



Register Here===>

So register now, and I’ll “see” you there!

PS Be sure to check out our Get Relief package if you are experiencing grief and loss and want to move into freedom and joy.

Some Thoughts On Releasing Grief, Loss And Longing

As we walk thorough life it’s common to notice some emotions of grief, loss, disappointments and longing that may not have been fulfilled.

We tend to make these emotions either bad or wrong, but whatever we are experiencing is exactly right, right now in this moment.

However you don’t want to sit in grief, loss, and longing for too long. When you notice it acknowledge it, own it, embrace and bless it and then release it.

Healing emotional pain will probably have to be done repeatedly because the thoughts that arise will trigger the memories that bring up the emotions.

That’s an indication that those memories (especially the ones you aren’t aware of) have still to be healed.

So how is this done? Just let go of pain. Letting go is easier than you realize. The difficulty arises when we want to hold on to it, or resist letting it go.

Moving forward in life requires us to let go of pain, to get unstuck. That’s why I find if I l know how to use a tool/method/or system, it helps in the release process.

It’s no different than having tools in your tool box and knowing when to reach for a hammer and nail for the specific job it’s meant to do. It’s a no brainer.

So too when you get triggered if you have a tool that’s easy and effective you will automatically reach for it and use it.

If you are unable to move on or don’t know of a way to easily and consistently release those emotions that are causing you pain which will allow you to move into joy, then allow me to help you.

Register for my next free live event here:

To your journey that propels you into a state of joy,


My Big Announcement

I’d like to share my global vision with you which for the past 7 years has been to teach, coach and support children (and their care givers) orphaned through aids, to release the grief and trauma of losing their parents.

Some of them have seen their parents die a slow lingering death over a period of a few years. Imagine how devastating that must be.

The challenge for me was that I didn’t even know where to begin. However I had to start by releasing or letting go of my conditioning, blocks, limiting beliefs and programs that were shouting at me that it was not possible, I had no resources, no marketing expertise or know how…

Releasing these conscious and unconscious blocks would allow me to see the answers and the opportunities that were hidden beneath the blocks. So that’s what I’ve been doing.

Well my big opportunity came just a week ago. I was given the opportunity to register in the Next Great Visionary Business Contest and FREE training program that Maggie Ostara co-created with Spirit.

There are 3 rounds of tasks to fulfill and trainings to experience and utilize. At the end of each round, we will be informed as to who will officially advance to the next round.

Whether I advance or not, I will have access to and be encouraged to take action on the training from all three rounds.

The most important prize for me is the transformation I will experience as a business owner-and the transformation in my business results that will result from me taking the actions required.

Here’s where you come in. I’m asking for your support, to walk along side me and say yes by:

  1. casting your vote for me;
  2. make a comment;
  3. Click on post to FB after you comment.

Each one of these steps helps in the voting contest.

Read my short manifesto and profile.

As a way of saying thank you I’m gifting you with a free 6 mini video series with “4 powerful phrases that could Transform Your Life” and the pdf’s

I can’t express how excited I am for this opportunity that has been sent my way and for being blessed to share this with you.

Thank you so much!

Many Blessings and Love,